MY JOURNEY FROM "SELF LOVE " TO ACTUAL SELF LOVE

Many people misunderstood the concept of self love , i was among them .

Years ago when i am not even familiar with the concept of self love . I eventually become  a part of our "judgemental" society who only seeks flaws and criticise others . so, that time  whenever i looked at mirror the first thing i notice was my skinny body and thought "they were right  i am skinny though and no clothes suits me".

  After many years of self loathing , i came across the concept of self love . From when my journey started , i was little known to what self love is , so at the beginning for me self love was all about self pampering, my skinny body no longer bothers me then.

But the question arises that self pampering is self love ? just feel good about your looks is self love? keeping yourself first in every situation is self love?

 I was covered with these type of question by myself and the inner part of myself need to know the answers . And the good thing was that i  discover the answers by myself . 

Now, i came up with the actual  definition  of self love . And this what i discover ;

• self love is not just letting ourself free and allow ourself to do whatever we want at  a particular time but it is to restrict ourself from doing wrong things .
• It is all about making the best version of ourself , pushing ourself to the toughest and take out the best . 
• Enhance our capabilities by setting targets little high than our present capability .
• Always chase for new experiences, try new things. 

I am seventeen now and discover my own definition of self love by my experiences and expecting myself that in upcoming years i would come up with a new evolved definition of self love by myself. 

"All should love themselves but should also know the actual meaning of self love"

Thankyou!