Writing this blog as I am turning twenty one this week, I started writing blogs when I was seventeen years old and now its been Four years of thinking, realisations and pouring my thoughts into this site. So here I am with some realisations and little wisdom!
So recently I bought a mid length elegant dress, and my friend asked me that I generally don't dress like this, the formal Looking Lady look. So i told her that as I am Grown up now ,its my twenty oneth birthday I want to dress up like a grown UP. So she said yes you are looking like a independent Lady.
This sentence of her's was running in my mind, and I realised that it is not about how I dress up. But is really am I a grown up independent girl?
Its not about Looking independent its about being independent , so here are the moments when I felt independent and grown up.
The time when I went to palour without my mother for the First Time, for threading. The time when i cleaned the cooler all by myself in the Hostel, the moment when I stepped in the office for my internship, the time when I went to a all boys trip, the time I was riding in the Mountains, the time when I had deal with my depression phase alone, the time when I healed myself. The time when I let myself to accept me as I am, the time when I let my thoughts to go beyond the boundaries I created!
The sense of independency was felt to me, when I learned to eat food alone, go to places alone. When I learned sleeping without sharing my sorrow with anyone, when I learned to accept my mistakes and take credit for them.
So yes age is just a number, but the learnings and realisation is the main thing, so here I am learning from each and every moment. And loving a life a little more because my life is full of adventure.
Excited for the chapter twenty one! 
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