Finding your shore alone!

 Hey hii, how are you Doing? And how your most important person is Doing?

And you'll be probably thinking here, about the most important person in your life. 

What've you guys thought? Umm let me guess

Your Parents, boyfriend/girlfriend, bestfriend. 

But what if I tell you I wasn't asking about them.

The most important person in your life that I have mentioned is YOU. Only you are the most important person in your life. 

I've been thinking this lately that,

In this fast going world, where people are fantasising over the concept of soulmate, or finding the right person, the so called 'the one'. 

They forget to become the right person for themselves. (I'm not here to talk about that self-love thing again!) . 

But the person that will remain with you till the end, or the person that neither judge you nor love you with terms and conditions is only you. 

So why do we spend most of our time, searching the right one outside, but not building the right one inside. 

Although I value and respect healthy relationships alot!  They are the essence of this life. 

But the closest relationship one should have is with themselves. 

When your neighbour come to your house to ask for some sugar , and you give them, as much they need, because you had enough sugar in your home itself. But if you had not  enough sugar in your home, would you able to give them?. 

No right? 

Same goes with 'love' ,When and only you have abundant of love inside you. Then only you can give to someone else in outside relationship. 

And to make sure that the love inside is always at its highest amount , you have to have a healthy relationship with yourself.

"Agar maajhi saare saath mein gair ho bhi jaayein, toh khud hi to patwaar ban , paar honge hum"

This means that if all the people who were  with me, if they would leave, i'll still sail my boat alone in this life. 

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.And will find my shore! 

Or may be I am my shore. ( khud hi to hai hum kinare!) 

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